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President Donald Trump is mulling ways to combat Americaβs ongoing birth and fertility crisis. One possibility: cold, hard cash.
βSounds like a good idea to me,β Trump told The Post last week when asked about the potential $5,000 βbaby bonusβ to get more Americans to have kids.
As a mother of six, I canβt help but wonder β will that be retroactive?
The idea calls to mind the meme of a drowning man, hand barely above water, reaching out for help β only to get a high-five before slipping under.
Thatβs exactly what this proposal feels like: a symbolic gesture in the face of a sinking reality.
A one-time payout of $5,000 β an amount that wouldnβt even cover the cost of one of my births β isnβt a life raft, but a pat on the head as families struggle to stay afloat amid rising costs, child-care shortages and a culture that undervalues parenthood.
American families donβt need a flashy push present. We need durable policy change.
We need tax reform rooted in research, reflecting the real needs of modern mothers and fathers, and support that empowers families to dream bigger, not just survive.
Several Republicans on Capitol Hill areΒ thinking deeply about how to ease that burden.
Rep. Blake Moore (R-Utah), a father of four, this year introduced the Family First Act to update the IRSβs Child Tax Credit.
His proposal would boost the CTC from $2,000 to $4,200 for each young child, $3,000 for kids aged 6 to 17, and add a new $2,800 credit for pregnant moms.
Thatβs a policy with potential, recognizing that raising children isnβt a one-time cost, but a long-term commitment.
Nations around the globe are sounding alarms about the birth dearth. Countries like Hungary, South Korea and Iran have launched programs to reverse their demographic decline β with little success.
Meanwhile, according to recently released Centers for Disease Control and Prevention data, Americaβs fertility rate has slipped to 1.62 births per woman, far below the 2.1 needed to sustain our population.
And hereβs the deeper issue: the problem isnβt just a drop in babies, itβs a drop inΒ marriages.
Since 1970, the US marriage rate has fallen by 60%. While married couples (especially religious ones) still do have children β and statistically have more sex than singletons do β there are simply far fewer of them today.
So maybe instead of a $5,000 baby bonus, Trump should consider a one-time tax break for newlyweds.
Marriage is still the most reliable path to a thriving family, and federal policies should reflect that.
Of course, money alone canβt solve this crisis. We also need a culture shift, a reawakening to the beauty and adventure of family life.
Across our culture, from social media to movies to TV to print, marriage is portrayed as bondage (and not the fun kind, either), and kids as exhausting, soul-sucking thieves of joy.Β
And while Elon Musk is a loud voice in favor of bringing more progeny into the world, his personal βharem modelβ isnβt exactly the blueprint for a flourishing society.
The better answer? Pro-family policy and pro-family storytelling.
Mooreβs Family First Act, for example, wonβt solve the whole problem, but it sends the right message: families matter.
As Moore told me, βMoving toward a pro-family culture will require considering both immediate incentives and lasting policy change.β
Policy isnβt just economics, itβs narrative. Itβs messaging.
And right now, American families need more than a one-time payment. They need a plan, and they need to feel seen.
Which brings me to a moment last week, halfway around the world, that somehow felt very close to home: Vice President JD Vanceβs X post of a perfectly imperfect photo of himself, his wife Usha and their squirming, squinting children on their official trip to India.
The caption? βWith three little kids staring into the sun, this was actually theΒ bestΒ photo we got at the Taj Mahal todayβ β followed by a laughing emoji.
Thatβs the kind of positive, pro-family image Americans need to see more of: messy, real and beautiful.
If I were to choose an American-family czar to lead that cultural transformation, Iβd hand the job to the Vances. Theyβre normal, theyβre likable and theyβre living what theyβre preaching.
Our families donβt need high-fives as we go under. We need a hand to pull us out β and policies to help us stand strong.
Bethany Mandel writes and podcasts at The Mom Wars and is a homeschooling mother of six in greater Washington, DC.